How to grow and develop along with adolescent children

In a time when children enter adolescence, which challenges may be encountered . Parents will be in the child's growing up years in the interactive relationship between the learning and growing. When the children to enter adolescence , many parents will begin to stress that the child's adolescence is known that during the storm , about to have a lot of "storm" is coming .

Children to the youth of the time , there are many rebellious attitude , behavior, etc. , but not everyone reach this stage, the youngsters will definitely be rebellious attitude or behavior. Some children will have a strong change , such as treason , and the parents quarrel , some children remain moderate through this period . Why do children have such two extreme performance? In the process of parenting a child , they will affect whether or not the child's respect for the child's growth . To young children will find themselves on like an adult. If parents have children with a way to teach children respect , children's bounce may not be so great. In addition , friends will have a great impact on the child , if a child my friends are the same reaction pattern to get along with their parents , the child will be learning this . If parents educate their children with a mild form , the child will feel being respected; the other hand, if the total of the kids yelling parents , the child will feel respected , will be malicious .

Young children with parents of the performance differences between the patterns of life . There will be disagreement between husband and wife , and when differences arise between husband and wife conflict is how to deal with , and is a rational approach to solve the problem , or non- rational , or even violent approach to solve the problem. This is a child brought up in their parents will be able to see. This virtually affected children . Some couples fight the Cold War long after the child is a very bad example . Leaves more harmony between husband and wife and sisters who also have respect for their children. They treat their children as friends , whether in good times or adversity, all the children to share , let the children know that parents have a strong side and weak side , in which children learn how to rely on prayer as their parents . In small children , when they saw the couple have not today , they unconsciously do one thing before going to bed every night with the kids are reading and prayer . Such behavior , let the children learn not only the words of Scripture , there is as a Christian way of life. Even , the difficulties between the couple , conflicts , worries , children are invited to pray for them . Child is small, but pray that God will hears her . This allows the child time to learn to understand in the face of things to talk to God , even if the parent is not around, they know they are the Father and with them, they can pray , you can look up to , can have hope .

Parents with their children 's time is very short . Even now parents are very troubled children , but parents have to cherish , because the time passed quickly .

In the Yang brothers learn a lesson in life is to magnify the Lord . In his memory, small children , he encountered difficulties, and children to share , let the children help pray .

Results words of Scripture, the child to encourage him to become his teacher , became his angel . Parents also have weaknesses and blind spots . But their children and their parents can still life, brave and sincere enough that their parents , so parents can be suitably also reflect on progress so slowly . Ye sister said that her daughter is like a mirror , let her see their own deficiencies , when her daughter that her low, her heart is happy , she wanted to learn how to humble acceptance of change themselves. Similarly , allowing her daughter to learn how to grow humble . No one is perfect , but people can mistake in learning and progress. I remember when her eldest daughter to college just when she was very worried about her daughter's situation , to call her every day to understand the situation . But instead of interfering with daughter's life . Then her daughter told her , ask her to play once a week telephone . At the time , like her mother, though , and many are worried , but she decided to follow the recommendations of his daughter , and slowly learn how to let go . Every parent must learn to let go after the children grow up , otherwise the child is a very painful thing.